I'd planned to see "The Wrestler" on the theater big screen before the Academy Awards, but never made the commitment. Last week, Mickey Rourke's comeback film showed up on my "On Demand," and I quickly pressed the clicker to view it in the dark recesses of my own den.
First, I give the makers of the film credit for refusing a feel-good, happy ending. The ambiguous final scene, when Rourke's Randy the Ram refuses the future with Marisa Tomei's good-hearted stripper and leaps toward what we assume is his long-sought rendevous with that all-time champion wrestler the Grim Reaper, shows the stuff of classic tragedy.
Remembering the striking face of the young Rouke, watching his ruined visage gives the perverse pleasure of old-time horror movies. Perhaps a remake of Frankenstein could be his next move. He still has his physical dynamism and camera-loving grace. Tomei gives depth to one of the most cliched roles imaginable. I loved the humor, homoerotic bonhomie and deep respect for each other in the "wrestling community." In the end, I didn't think it a great movie, or worthy of the Oscar hype, but it was definitely a cut above the usual Hollywood fluff.
"The Wrestler" walks the same neighborhood as "Frozen River," with Melissa Leo occupying a similar career-reviving role that drew Oscar attention. Last year was when Hollywood gave its attention to gritty working class indie films. I liked Leo in the old "Homicide, A Life on the Streets" show, except for her annoying tic of exhaling "huh" frequently. She was the detective partner of whatever Baldwin brother played on the show, and she frequently smoldered in the chauvinist environment of the Baltimore detectives.
However, I found "Frozen River" grueling, almost unbearable. Leo's character, like Rourke's struggling to maintain a trailer-park existence, somehow lacked the grace and humor of Rourke's. Although some have found "The Wrestler" unwatchable, I thought the wrestlers, Rourke and Tomei displayed more likable personalities. The lives in "Frozen River" were too grim, too frozen. The movie tried to relieve the suffering with the type of sentimental feel-good ending that "The Wrestler" avoided, but I found it unconvincing.
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